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Saturday 27 April 2013

Tony Robbins: ‘What they seldom teach you in school’

Posted by John Lee

IT’S a question that has puzzled and frustrated people the world over for decades.

Why do some people aim for and achieve their goals with almost startling efficiency and regularity, while others seem to fall at the first hurdle every time?

Well, in this excellent video, Tony Robbins provides some excellent answers in characteristically clear, concise and convincing style.

He talks about the role played by fear in driving people on, what really motivates them when they start their own business and what two qualities you absolutely must have to succeed.
Tony Robbins

He also shares his simple formula for conditioning your mind to make sure you keep going at all costs.

If you’re at all familiar with Tony Robbin’s work, you’ll know it’s always lively, exciting and compelling. 

This 17-minute video is certainly no different.

Take a look by clicking on the link below:

http://youtu.be/LlC5j264Rk8

45 Life Lessons, written by a 90 year old

Posted by John Lee

I just loved these ‘pearls of wisdom’ that came to me through Chris Cain’s ‘Steal These Secrets Newsletter’, so much so that I had to ‘pass them on’. 

As the title says, they were written by a nonagenarian, who’s clearly lived a little! They’re insightful, perceptive and sometimes a little tongue in cheek! 

But they all have a great lesson or a comforting thought to offer. Take a look. I hope you enjoy them! 

By: Alex K. / Source: Kangalex 

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
Friends will always take care of you
5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for things that matter.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye… But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to be happy.  But it’s all up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose Life.
28. Forgive but don’t forget.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
Your children get only one childhood - enjoy it together.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d
grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.
42. The best is yet to come…
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

Saturday 20 April 2013

Is Your Unconscious in the Driver's Seat?

By Roger Kenneth Marsh

IT has been said that awareness is the first step in any spiritual transformation. Once you become aware of something, you can then begin to work with it. Until then, it's just running the show without you. Carl Jung said "Until you make what's unconscious conscious, it will run your life and you will call it destiny." That's powerful stuff!

"God can do for you, only what God can do through you." ~ Michael Bernard Beckwith

If God can only do for you what God can do through you, what's limiting God? Well, that's right, you. But most often it's a particular part of you: your 'un' or 'subconscious'. Therefore this "work" is most about getting yourself out of the way. This is your self with a small 's'. Life force energy, big 'S' Self, wants to flow through you but we tend to block it up with resistance, dis-belief, and fears of all kinds, from large to small.

Some of these are conscious, but many are unconscious.
Roger Kenneth Marsh

It helps to look at these unconscious parts of ourselves as old commitments that we originally put in place to protect us, back when our mental, emotional, and spiritual capacities were not developed enough to be capable of withstanding some of the circumstances we were experiencing. Hence, we created automatic protection mechanisms to shield us from the pain. And they worked; they kept us alive and safe for the most part.

However, now that we are older, more mature, with much, much larger perspectives on the world, these childhood protection mechanisms typically create more pain than they prevent. We've simply outgrown them and it's time to thank them and let them go. This is the essence of shadow work: discovering, acknowledging, embracing, integrating, and releasing old commitments and old thoughts about ourselves and the world, then creating new ones.

We could call these parts of ourselves Subconscious Limiting Beliefs (SLBs), or Previous Commitments Becoming Conscious (PCBC), because we typically made these decisions about the world and ourselves long ago in our lives. We then reinforced those beliefs over and over again, and kept our commitments with integrity, until they went subconscious and became just the way the world is (for us).

It's important to note that a belief in and of itself is not limiting, it only becomes limiting when you are inspired to grow beyond it. So you are, on the one hand, inspired to a greater vision of yourself, but on the other you are limited by old beliefs, habits, and patterns. As you might imagine this can be a frustrating and conflicting place to be.

But on your Hero's Path, your path of evolution, this will be a common experience. However, over time, it's an experience that you'll eventually be able to powerfully navigate with grace and ease. There is no one and no thing to transform but yourself.

What we are up to here is no less than the transformation of ourselves from victim to creator. We are freeing ourselves in all areas of our life, even from our own subconscious. It is a huge shift. Access to the world of the creator is through evolving yourself. Evolving yourself means clarifying a vision for your life, then watching yourself very carefully as you step into that vision.

Your unconscious beliefs (and limitations) will make themselves known through your behaviors. You have an opportunity and a moment of choice each time you see yourself doing something out of alignment with your vision. In that moment you are conscious, and in that moment you can make a more authentic choice for your behavior. One that is more aligned with the new vision of your Self.

Taking this moment of choice opportunity over and over again is the path of transformation. This leads you to the next and newest you - the one you desire to become! Try this:

To get a sense of how much your unconscious may be limiting you, and limiting what God can do for you, ask yourself the following questions:

* How free am I? In all areas of my life?
* How joyful am I?
* How loving am I?
* How much love do I experience each day?
* How peaceful am I in my life?
* How present, in each moment, am I?
* How much awe and beauty do I experience each day?
* Am I fulfilling the highest vision of my life?

Your transformational opportunity is to become that 'still point' at the center of all creation, with complete and total freedom to move in any truly authentic and Source-inspired direction. When you are fully connected to this aspect of yourself, with no intervening unconscious beliefs, naturally flowing through you will be deep levels of joy, peace, presence, and the needed power to fulfill your highest and most authentic life path.

Get your unconscious out of the driver's seat! Congratulations - you're one step closer to your mojo!

Roger Kenneth Marsh is a Spiritual Life Coach & creator of the Major Good Mojo System. He has an engineering degree, MBA, is a Certified Life Coach, HeartMath® Provider, and Passion Test® Facilitator. Get his book "NexGen Human" on Amazon.com, and FREE CD "3 Keys to Major Good Mojo" at http://www.majorgoodmojo.com/free-cd
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Why hard work is NOT the secret to success

By John Lee

IMAGINE putting your life on the line every working day. Being hundreds of miles out to sea, where, if your fishing vessel runs into trouble, you only have yourself and your crew-mates to rely on.

Of course, people have done this for hundreds of years. Their level of courage is hard to appreciate for most of us, who lead a much more cosseted existence. But not for men such as Kevin Thompson.

Now the head coach of the hugely successful online training program, ‘Automatic Income’, which helps entrepreneurs to leverage the power of the internet, he once worked the fishing boats off Alaska.
Put your life on the line every working day?
If you’ve ever seen the movie, ‘The Perfect Storm’, with George Clooney and Mark Wahlberg, or the TV series, ‘Deadliest Catch’, you’ll have some idea of the considerable dangers these vessels and their crews face.

There can be few more treacherous occupations anywhere in the world and Kevin ultimately realised that – contrary to what he’d always been told by his military man father – ‘hard work is’ NOT ‘the secret to success’.

In this latest episode of the Inspiration Show, hosted by Natalie Ledwell, Kevin tells his story in full and how he broke out of what was ultimately a ‘limiting belief’ about what he had to do to achieve in life what he truly wanted.

Simply click on the link below to be taken to the original video. It's well worth a look.

http://tiny.cc/y95tvw

Saturday 13 April 2013

Don't Judge the Ache!

By Douglas R Kruger

I was 10 years old, passionately disinterested in Mr Tuck's Math class, but completely sold on my first great obsession. To this day, I can remember aching with ambition as I watched skateboarders Tony Hawk and Danny Way twirling ten feet above a Californian half-pipe, in brazen contravention of the laws of physics.

I dearly, desperately, more-than-life-itself wanted to be like them! The urge was all-consuming. And spurred on by this pulsating need, I donned my baggy pants, turned my cap backwards, skinned my shins irreparably and won the regional Skateboarding Championships three times; a feat I would never have achieved without that imitative compulsion.
Douglas R Kruger

 We all have our favored legends, icons, and platinum-level achievers. They knock around in our imaginations and light fires inside us, whether they're as grandiose as international sports stars or as humble as the office leader we admire.

Watching them in action ignites our own hunger to perform, and despite the much-lauded modern view that we should 'only compete against ourselves', there is something deeply stirring in the primal human compulsion: "I want to be like that!"

Don't be fooled. Watching someone else do what you want to do, and burning with the envy to imitate, is immensely motivating. I still use its driving force to spur me on to this day.

No matter how far I progress in my own industry, deep down inside, that same little voice is still spurring me on, still watching the greats and whispering, "I want to be like that!"

I recommend that little voice to you. It gets things done. Not a popular view:

People who wear flowers in their hair and run home-industry stores selling herbs and crystals generally disagree. They would have you quell that urge. They'd have you renounce competitiveness as a Western disease, and replace it with positive and unqualified feelings about yourself.

Curiously, these folk are rarely seen at the Olympics. Or on the cover of Forbes. Or atop the New York Times bestseller list. Or at the skateboarding world championships, for that matter.

I'm much harder on myself than that. And I recommend a harder approach to you too.

It is a basic human drive to want to emulate our idols - take our place beside them on the pedestal - and it can draw surprisingly great things from us. Proviso:

Now, here's the problem: When observing our idols, we only see their 'on-stage' activity. Emulating that is meaningless. What we really need to emulate is their backstage preparation. And that's a whole lot less sexy.

Take the athlete: We see no more than the burst of glory, the flashing of cameras, the medal being lowered around the neck. We rarely see the years of agonizing work that preceded it.

Excellence isn't what you see. It's what came before it. Proficiency isn't the visible act. It's the invisible preparation. Mastery does not occupy a moment, but grows out of years of discipline.

This is where the urge to emulate our idols comes in handy; it is perhaps one of the few human drives strong enough to sustain the years of practice that excellence ultimately requires.

When last did you look at someone doing what you want to do, occupying the heights you would love to occupy, and feel something simmering deep inside you? A sort of yearning at the very centre of your being?

How deep is your ache? How painfully, compulsively, do you want to be like them?

Don't judge the ache. Don't buy the idea that it's somehow evil, covetous or ignoble. It can help you. Feel it. Let it burn a little. Seek it out when you flag or fail. And then when you've stoked the coals of performance-desire, take action.

Let the ache burn a little. And success can be yours.
Emulate the back-stage preparation. If the desire burns strongly enough, you'll pick up your skateboard and happily skin your shins. Over and over again. Years will pass as you practice.

And one day you'll surprise yourself by looking around and discovering that you're right there on the pedestal, that they're lowering the medal around your neck, that you're standing beside your idol... perhaps even one step up!

Douglas Kruger is a professional speaker, trainer and author of the '50 Ways' series of books. His most booked keynote speeches are: The Rules of Hamster-Thinking, The Big Bum Theory, and How To Position Yourself As An Expert.

See him in action or read more of his articles at: http://www.douglaskruger.co.za. Email him at: kruger@compute.co.za or follow him on Linked In or Twitter: @douglaskruger

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Saturday 6 April 2013

Taking the ‘Flash Mob’ to a Whole New Level

By John Lee

WE’VE probably all seen videos of the ‘flash mob’ in action.

They usually involve a shopping mall, a group of bewildered shoppers and a bunch of amateur dancers who’ve studiously learned a modern dance routine.

And they’re great fun!

But the recording below takes this wonderfully liberating and joyful idea in a completely different direction to the normal flash mob format.

I don’t know where it took place or when. But that really doesn’t matter.

It’s just great to see how complete strangers, going about their business, can suddenly be brought together.

Better still, they’re actually smiling, too!

So click on the link below, hit 'full screen', turn the sound up nice and loud... and enjoy a superb little video.

http://www.wimp.com/bestcoin/