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Saturday, 4 January 2014

25 “Train Your Brain” Tips To Turbo-Charge Your Memory

Courtesy of the Daily Mirror newspaper, UK

1. Associate the memory with the environment: So if, for example, a joke is learned in the presence of a particular smell, that same aroma may cue the memory for that joke.

"More simply, when in an exam, I advise my students to visualise the place in which they were revising as a cue to memory," says Andrew Johnson, memory specialist and lecturer in psychology at Bournemouth University in the UK.

Turbo-charge your memory
2. Clench your fist: Research suggests that balling up your right hand and squeezing it tightly actually makes it easier to memorise phone numbers or shopping lists.

"Later, when you want to retrieve the information, clench the left fist. Researchers think the movements activate brain regions key to the storing and recall of memories."

3. Learn something before bed: "The best way to 'consolidate a memory' is to go through the information just before going to sleep," explains Dr Johnson.

"This is because there are fewer 'new' interfering memories, so you will remember it better the next day."

4. Say the alphabet: "When you cannot recall a piece of information - such as the name of an actor in a film - use the alphabet search method, i.e. going through the alphabet to find the first letter of the word or name you are trying to remember in order to jog your memory. It really works,” says neuropsychologist, Dr Joanna Iddon.

5. Drink more milk: Scientists asked 972 people to fill in detailed surveys on their diets and to complete eight rigorous tests to check their concentration, memory and learning abilities.

Adults who consumed dairy products at least five or six times a week did far better in memory tests compared with those who rarely ate or drank them.

6. Exercise more: Several studies have shown that aerobic exercise improves cognitive function and is particularly good at enhancing memory. Exercise is also thought to encourage the growth of new brain cells in the hippocampus - an area of the brain important in memory and learning.

7. Get salsa dancing: "Music lovers perform better in cognitive tests while research has shown the beneficial effects of music on those with Alzheimer’s disease," explains memory expert Dr Chris Moulin.

Music with strong rhythms and patterns - like reggae and salsa - are best for memory and problem-solving. The more complex the dance, the more the brain will be challenged.

8. Forget the nightcap: Alcohol may help you fall asleep but it leads to a disrupted night’s rest - and has a detrimental effect on concentration and memory, say researchers at The London Sleep Centre.

And the more you drink, the less deep - or REM - sleep you get.

9. Say it out loud: This is the easiest of all methods for remembering everything from where you put your car keys to what you need from the shop to revising for a test, say memory experts.

Studies found that saying what you want to remember out loud to yourself - or even mouthing it - will help with recall.

10. Don’t swallow it whole: When someone gives you a phone number, use 'chunking' as a way of remembering it, suggests Dr Moulin.

"So when given a string of numbers to remember, such as 123957001066, break it down into 12 39 57 00 10 66 or even 1239 5700 1066.

Try to chunk numbers according to something you find meaningful, like the age of someone you know, an address or a famous date. Then they form a story to help you remember.”

11. Quit smoking: It can cause significant damage to your memory, say researchers at Northumbria University in the UK.

When 69 students aged 18 to 25, were asked to memorise a list of tasks, those who had never smoked did best, remembering to complete 81% of the tasks.

The smokers - on an average of 60 cigarettes a week - managed to get through only 59%.

A separate study at King’s College London found that middle-aged smokers performed less well on tests compared with those without the tobacco habit.

12. ... and cannabis too: Adolescents who are regular users of cannabis are at risk of permanent damage to their intelligence, attention span and memory, according to the results of a long-term study, which followed over 1,000 people from birth to the age of 38.

13. Give us a cue: If there’s something you have to do every day at a specific time and often forget, a technique called implementation intentions is very simple, says Dr Moulin.

For example, say to yourself "whenever I have my first cup of tea in the morning, I will also take my pills". Or "when the lunchtime news finishes, I’ll do my exercises".

14. Use imagery: One type of mnemonic - or memory aid - relies on imagery rather than words.

"A classic way of remembering a person’s name is to try and imagine it (or something associated to it) on the person’s face," says Dr Moulin.

So, if you meet John Bridge - imagine a bridge on his face. Psychologists have found that the more bizarre and vivid the image the better it works.

15. Drink green tea: Chinese researchers say regularly drinking it could improve your memory and delay the onset of Alzheimer’s disease thanks to its key ingredient - the organic molecule EGCG (epigallocatechin-3 gallate), an antioxidant that protects against age-related degenerative illnesses.

16. Make it mean something: While the digits 5019114421945 are hard to remember as they are meaningless, try assigning each set of three digits a meaning, advises Dr Moulin.

Try Levis, a Porsche, favourite football formation and the end of the Second World War.

These facts may not be easy to remember - but not so hard as digits in raw form.

Look for meaning in everything - especially if you can refer it back to yourself.

17. Eat like the Europeans: A Mediterranean diet - low in red meat and dairy, and high in omega-3 fatty acids found in oily fish and nuts - can help preserve memory and reduce dementia risk, say US researchers.

The study, in the journal Neurology, studied the diets of 17,478 people with an average age of 64.

Those who followed the Med diet were 19% less likely to develop problems with memory.

18. Watch your food intake: Eating too much can double the risk of memory problems in old age, according to US research.

Studies found a high-calorie intake can substantially increase the risk of developing mild cognitive impairment, or MCI, characterised by memory loss, which can precede dementia.

19. Doodle: In memory tests, doodlers performed 29% better than non-doodlers when asked to recall names and places, Plymouth University researchers found.

Experts say doodling doesn’t tax the mind and allows us to concentrate on the task in hand. It stops us daydreaming, too, which is distracting.

20. Drink red wine: Half a glass of wine a day improves cognitive ability and memory, say researchers from Oxford University.

"It’s thought the micronutrients called flavonoids, particularly in red wine, improve brain function," explains Dr Iddon.

21. Look at nature: A US study found people who walked around an arboretum did 20% better on a memory test than those who walked around streets. Just looking at pictures of nature can have a beneficial effect.

22. Tuck into chocolate: Eating chocolate can improve your memory, said Oxford University scientists, who tested 2,000 volunteers.

A separate study at Northumbria University found people given large amounts of flavonols, a compound found in chocolate, found mental arithmetic much easier.

23. Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep boosts the formation of beta amyloid, the toxic protein that clogs up the brain, according to a study in the journal Science.

"Disturbed sleep delays storage of memories and makes us forget sooner," says Professor Chris Idzikowski, director of The Edinburgh Sleep Centre.

24. Visualise what you need to do: If you’re in the kitchen, and remember you need to close the bedroom window, think of the curtains flapping.

Once you have paused to form the vivid association between the room and the reason you are going there, go straight there.

This avoids the 'Now, what did I come in here for?' scenario!

25. Use it or lose it: Developing an interest or hobby and staying involved in activities that stimulate the mind and body can help with memory loss, says Dr Iddon.

Article source: http://tiny.cc/tbw58w

Happiness or Gratitude... Which Comes First?

With Brother David Steindl-Rast

(Posted by John Lee of YourBestYouEver.net)

ASK most people the above question and they'll probably reply that they'll be grateful once they feel happy.

Brother David Steindl-Rast speaking at TED last summer
Not so, according to Benedictine monk, Brother David Steindl-Rast, who has written and spoken extensively on the interaction between these two powerful emotions.

And in the video you can access below, Brother David is at his most engaging and enlightening, while speaking on the subject at TED last summer.

Wonderfully warm, gentle and serene, he examines a number of points, with characteristic clarity and simplicity, including:

* Which comes first, 'happiness' or 'gratefulness'
* The true nature of gratitude,
* The real value of the present moment
And
* Why opportunity DOESN'T knock JUST once

He also offers a straightforward, three-step method we can all use to live gratefully and talks about the very different revolution currently taking in human consciousness.

Take a look. It's a brilliant presentation.

http://tiny.cc/vrv58w

Thursday, 2 January 2014

Why Fearlessness Is More Important Than Confidence


WE are our best selves when we are confident.

Some of the benefits of confidence are the ability to be yourself, possessing greater courage, speaking your mind, feeling good about yourself, staying calm despite unfavorable circumstances, and having greater appeal as a friend or a mate. But there is one thing that’s even stronger than confidence. Fearlessness.

Why Fearlessness Is So Powerful

Fearlessness and confidence are related. If you don’t fear anything, you will naturally be confident, because a lack of confidence is primarily caused by fear of rejection, danger, or failure.

So you could say that confidence is a by-product of fearlessness.

Fearlessness enables people to do unbelievable things like climb skyscrapers, launch their body across the goal line (in football), and most importantly, boldly live their ideal life!

Most people wanting to be more confident will aim directly for confidence, but I think they could have better success by aiming for fearlessness. In many ways, it’s a more direct approach to being more confident.

When you try to be confident, you’re attempting to build yourself higher than your fears in an “I can do this” kind of way.

How Fearlessness Becomes Confidence

Imagine you see an attractive person and want to talk to him/her, but you aren’t confident enough. To try to gain confidence at this point is going to be very difficult.

Confidence comes from within, so it takes time to improve your baseline confidence. Though there are some in-the-moment strategies like confident body language that can physiologically increase your confidence.

But what if you attempted to conquer your fears as a way to become more confident?

Once you identify your fears, you can find some weaknesses in their “armor.”

First, you’d address your fear of rejection: The person might respond negatively to you. If you ask him/her out, they might say no. He/she could laugh at you and embarrass you. Ack!

However, these rejection scenarios are only scary or embarrassing for like 5 seconds. Can’t you handle that as a worst case scenario? Are you going to let yourself be scared of 5 seconds of awkwardness or discomfort?

This applies to any possible rejection scenario, from asking for a raise, to asking for a job, to asking for a girl’s number.

Second, you’d address the fear of failure. The fear of failure is a level above the fear of rejection, and involves longer term evaluation of what the rejection means.

You might feel that this one instance of rejection is representative of your general relationship with the opposite sex.

You might feel like this person is the ambassador for their gender, and if they vote you out, then all hope is lost. I’ve had this fear before. :-)

The fear of failure can be dissolved with some logic. There are 7 billion people on earth and every single one of us has different tastes and preferences.

If you’re a good and honest person, then most people are going to at least like you as a friend. People tend to be irrationally scared of approaching strangers.

The logic is that any single case of rejection is just that – a single instance. If you’re willing to keep trying, you’ll find success.

Jia Jiang decided to experience 100 days of rejection to conquer his fears. And he found that most people were nice and receptive to him (a complete stranger), but not all.

What if he tried once, got rejected, and assumed that everyone would be that way? He would have held on to false beliefs.

In statistics, the sample size is very important. The lower the sample size, the less reliable the data. Why can’t we see that this is true for our lives as well?

And why can’t we see that for most things, all it takes is ONE successful result – for marriage, in business, and even investing.

Investing in Apple stock in the year 2000 would be enough to overcome the collapse of the rest of your portfolio, as it has increased 80-fold since then!

What Happens When You Remove Fear

When you remove fear, confidence tends to emerge. Confidence is believing in a positive result, while fear is worrying about the potential of a negative result.

Once fear of a negative result is gone, it’s easier to believe in a positive result (ie be confident). Fearlessness means nothing is holding you back.

100% fearlessness isn’t healthy though. The L.A. Times interviewed Michael P. Ghiglieri about deaths in the Grand Canyon, and here was one Q&A that shows the consequences of careless fearlessness.
LA Times: Is it true that somebody once fell to his death in the canyon because he slipped while pretending to fall to his death? 
Ghiglieri: Sad to say this is true. In 1992, 38-year-old Greg Austin Gingrich leaped atop the guard wall and wind-milled his arms, playing-acting losing his balance to scare his teenaged daughter. 
Then he comically “fell” off the wall on the canyon side onto a short slope where he assumed he could land safely. 
As his daughter walked on, trying not to fuel her father’s dangerous antics by paying attention to them, Gingrich missed his footing and fell silently about 400 feet into the void. 
It took rangers quite a while to locate his body — and to determine that his daughter was an orphan only due to his foolishness. (Source)
The key in life seems to be knowing which fears are healthy and helpful to have (a fear of heights isn’t such a bad thing to have) and which fears simply hold you back (asking a question, trying something new, being embarrassed).

Some people’s fear is so crippling that they can’t function normally. Others die because they don’t have enough fear. As with many things, balance is ideal.

Be fearful of things that are worthy of your fear, but don’t ever let the word “no” scare you. Don’t ever let it hold you back from pursuing opportunities.


Opportunities only pay off if you’re willing to take them, which you can do by losing your fear and picking up confidence.

The next time you’re struggling with confidence, think about what you’re most afraid of, and attack that root. Then you can move forward!

Article source: http://tiny.cc/c6h28w

Sunday, 22 December 2013

Is Success in Your DNA?

By Darren Hardy of 'Success' magazine

“Success just isn’t in your DNA.”

I’ll never forget the day she said those words to me.

I was in eleventh grade English class, and it was a Friday. I was eager for the bell to ring so I could get to baseball practice. We had a big game that night. As the bell tolled the teacher asked me to come to her office after class.

I knew this couldn’t be good.

I sat across from her as she handed me our most recent essay test with a big red letter that came much later in the alphabet than I had hoped. She told me not to be discouraged - that everyone has different skills and that this just wasn’t my “thing.”

“But even if you aren’t successful at writing,” she continued, “You can be successful at other things, like baseball. Didn’t you hit a home run last weekend?”

I knew she was trying to be helpful, but there was something about what she said that I didn’t like.

Her tone implied it had already been decided, not just that I wasn’t successful at writing but that I couldn’t be. And when I questioned her, she answered: “That kind of success just isn’t in your DNA, Darren.”

It’s true. My DNA certainly wasn’t extraordinary. My mother was absent, living a couple thousand miles away, working, I think, as a waitress and sometimes bartender. My dad was a college football coach with fewer nurturing instincts than a frat boy.

If you were to count up the “success strands” in my double helix, it wouldn’t add up to much, and my teacher had clearly done the math. But then again…

* Benjamin Franklin was the 15th of 17 children, had two years of schooling and was the son of a candle maker.
* Ralph Lauren was the son of a house painter.
* Steve Jobs was born to two college students who also gave him away to adoption.
* Sara Blakely, self-made (now) billionaire and founder of Spanx, had planned to be a lawyer until she failed the LSAT. Twice.
* Mark Cuban was born to an automobile upholsterer. He started as a bartender, then as a software sales person from which he was fired.
* Sean “P. Diddy, Puff Daddy” Combs lived in public housing in Harlem where his father was shot to death when he was two.
* Susie Orman’s dad was a chicken farmer, her mother was a secretary. Susie started as a waitress.
* Former General Colin Powell was born in Harlem to immigrant parents from Jamaica. He as a solid C student.
* Tony Hawk was so attention deficit, hyperactive that he was tested for psychological problems.
* Oprah Winfrey was born to a teenage mother in poverty-stricken rural Mississippi.
* Both my mentors - Jim Rohn and Paul J. Meyer - barely squeaked out of high school.

And the list goes on, and on, and on.

I wonder if any of their teachers ever sat them down and told them success just wasn’t in their DNA? Think how our world would be different if they had believed it, if they hadn’t gone on to create and live such extraordinary lives.

I wonder if anyone has ever said that to you?

I had a lot of time to think about what my teacher had said as I stood in the outfield that Friday night and somewhere during a home run lap, I vowed to prove her wrong.

Well I wonder if New York Times best-selling author and publisher and editor of SUCCESS magazine is enough… HA! Take that Mrs. So and So…. whom I’d love to rub your nose in it (just a little!) but I can’t remember your name - that is how much I have erased your commentary from my brain!

And really, it’s not all Mrs. So and So’s fault. During the 1920s America experienced a brief infatuation with eugenics and the idea that a man’s destiny and character were almost entirely determined by his DNA.

I know, ridiculous, right? But let’s remember during the same time they were performing lobotomies and shock therapy as regular practice for depression, and “coloreds” and women were not considered equal in the “All men are created equal” line of the Declaration of Independence.

Thankfully, ALL those crazy beliefs have been dispelled now. Including the one that your destiny and potential has anything to do with your DNA.

Here’s the deal. No matter what your DNA, or who calls you into their office and says what they say, YOU always get to decide. YOU are the creator of your destiny while you traverse this planet.

Success IS in your DNA.

And a final thank you to Mrs. So and So. Thank you for ticking me off, thus firing me up to prove you wrong. That was very helpful.

Article source: http://tiny.cc/SuccessDNA

Thursday, 19 December 2013

7 Fears Most Likely Sabotaging Your Dreams & How to Deal With Them

By The Personal Freedom Project

LET'S jump straight into this one.

1. Failure
Fear of failure stops you from doing the thing you really want to do, procrastinating and keeping yourself doing everything else except the thing you really want to do or NEED to.

I know because sometimes I do it too. (Yes I’m human.) Get over it by:
* Remembering why you wanted to do what you're doing in the first place
* Setting mini-targets
* Asking – What’s the worst case scenario?
* Positive Thinking 
Feel the fear and do it anyway!
 
2.  What others might think or say
In my opinion there are 2 sides to this, you may not agree with me:

* First – no-one cares what you do because they are too worried about their own fears to worry about you. (Not always but mostly)

* Second – someone will always have something negative to say, based on their own fears, that really never has anything to do with you!

* Third – I know I said 2 sides but here’s something else you need to know - you limit yourself by worrying what ‘others’ think.

Heck everyone might just be happy that you decided to do something that you really want to!

Yes, the haters will still be there. Do it anyway. Give them something to say. They’ll think what they want, in any case.
 
3. Accomplishing goals & dreams
If you're fearful about being successful you are not alone. This is one of the obstacles that holds many others back from taking action. How to get past this:

* Find your purpose. Find people who have already accomplished what you want to do – join groups, forums and build up a network so you can get support. Have you joined my Facebook community yet? AND liked the page?
* Inspirational, kick-butt-into-action materials – like positive thinking books, audios or videos.
* Develop the skills required for you to accomplish your goals by taking courses and reading books.
 
4. Fear of rejection
We all fear being rejected and this has probably come from past experiences mixed with the fear of the unknown. You don’t think you're good enough, mixed with what others will think.

It's going to happen at some point. Accept it and embrace it so that if and when it happens you can get up and move on.

To do this, have your goals in place, so if you are rejected you remember what you went after - what you wanted in the first place. You can get up and keep moving forward.

Visualize how you want things to be, then take action.
 
5. Making mistakes
Mistakes help you learn lessons that help you make better choices next time. Mistakes are there to help you. As harsh as that may sound, we all make mistakes.

It's how you respond to them that makes the difference. If you're held back by making mistakes, realize it's part of your learning journey. Listen to what ‘feels’ like the right thing to do… then do it!
 
6. Fear of the unknown
Our accomplishment at anything requires that we step into the unknown. Things don’t always go as planned and they’re not supposed to. As I’ve heard it quoted before “replace fear of the unknown with curiosity.” 

I’ve tried it too and it helps, when you're afraid to take action because you don’t know what the outcome will be. What will happen when you take that next step? What will happen if you don’t?
 
7. Change of career or (anything else for that matter)
OK, so you love your current job but want to become a writer, guitar player or, heck, you just want to own your own property empire.

Because your family matters. Right?
You and your sanity matter. Right?
And when you find your purpose, you will want to start something new.
 
Questions to ask yourself to get you over your fear of starting something new:
* Am I scared to fail?
* Am I afraid of what others might think or say?
* Am I scared of making a success of it?
* Will others reject me?
* Am I scared to take the next step?
* Or am I letting the fear off the unknown stop me?

If there are any ‘yes’ answers here, you might want to read what I previously wrote above for each ‘yes’.
 
Pain vs Fear
The pain of staying where you are in your current circumstances has got to be greater than fear of moving forward! That’s when the magic happens.
 
Time
As for time and being committed to your ultimate destination, yes I know you're limited to a certain amount of hours each day. You work, have kids, chores to get done and so many other things going on'

But taking some steps each day towards the bigger picture - the lifestyle and the freedom - will be absolutely worth it in the end! Small steps count too.

Action
You must adopt a new habit of doing things in your life, even if you don’t feel like doing what will lead you to where you want to go.

But it’s going to take work – good purposeful, meaningful work and planning that you will enjoy and whenever you see results you will feel a sense of deep satisfaction. Your life is short. Too short.
 
Now feel the fear and do it anyway.

Article source: http://tiny.cc/7Fears

Tuesday, 17 December 2013

Doing the Impossible

By Darren Hardy of Success magazine

“We are. We are going to stop them.”

It was a promise, a battle cry - to end a country’s longest war. But this battle cry wasn’t bellowed by a mighty Roman general or a U.S. president.

No, it was uttered in a dark room in northern Uganda, to a frightened boy, by a recent college graduate from San Diego.

And it was impossible.

The college kid was Jason Russell, founder of Invisible Children.

The war in Africa led by the Lord’s Resistance Army (LRA) and warlord Joseph Kony, the first person indicted by the International Criminal Court for genocide and crimes against humanity.

The boy was 12-year-old Jacob, who - like 30,000 other children - had been abducted by the LRA. Jacob also had watched as his brother was murdered by Kony.

Russell believed that if U.S. citizens knew about these atrocities, they would stop them. But how could Russell and his two co-founders spread the word in the United States? Well, by appearing on Oprah!
But getting on Oprah was about as easy as stopping a war.

April 25, 2009, was the day. In Chicago 3,000 people gathered to demand attention from national news to be the voice for invisible children halfway around the world. An Oprah-worthy crowd, they were certain.

They stood outside in 40 mph winds and sheets of cold rain. The crowd quickly dwindled to 300 freezing-cold, trash-bag-clad believers.

It wasn’t enough.

No media came.

No Oprah Winfrey.

Nothing.

One day, two days, five frigid days passed - days without sleeping, showers or success. They called news stations; they called Oprah’s main switchboard.

Nothing. The brave 300 moved through the city, refusing to give up, but victory looked… impossible.

The sixth day was a Friday. Russsell and his team knew it was their last chance - Oprah didn’t air on the weekend, and the crowd wouldn’t stay. At 2:48 a.m. the troops mobilized, numbering 500 after out-of-town reinforcements arrived.

Before sunrise they walked to the show’s Harpo Studios and, shoulder to shoulder, surrounded the block.

When Winfrey’s car pulled in at 7:15 a.m., she asked her “people” about the ragtag crowd. Her people strongly advised that she stay away - to just ignore them.

But at this point, ignoring them was impossible.

Moments later, Winfrey emerged. She invited Russell and a few others inside.

Those left behind were concerned that they had infuriated the most powerful woman in the world.
Instead they had done the impossible.

She invited them to go on the air, live, in an hour. Right then, right there - Russell and his unstoppable team told the largest, most committed viewing audience in the United States about Kony.

That a war was raging. That children were abducted and murdered brutally and in terrifying numbers. And that together, “We are. We are going to stop them.”


You, too, can do the impossible.

Article Source: http://tiny.cc/DoImposs

Sunday, 15 December 2013

Our Shared Condition: Consciousness - with philosopher John Searle

Posted by John Lee of YourBestYouEver.net

IT'S a question that has long vexed the greatest of minds and remains a subject of debate.

Does 'the human consciousness' really exist and if so what form and function does it take?

Philosopher John Searle speaking about 'Our Shared Consciousness'

Even a cursory glance at current opinion reveals deep divisions between different schools of thought.

Well, in the fascinating video you can access below, eminent philosopher John Searle presents his view.

Speaking at CERN - the European Organization for Nuclear Research - in Switzerland, his talk covers:

* Why consciousness is the most important aspect of our lives

* The reasons why there appears to be a reluctance and hostility to the idea of consciousness

* The differing views held by the scientific and spiritual worlds, and why they 'paralyse' our thinking

* Some of the outrageous claims made about consciousness, its form and existence

* Reasons why these views really don't stand up to scrutiny

He also offers his own common-sense definition of what consciousness really is as part of our daily experience.

These are just some of the subjects covered by John in the very lively and insightful talk, which was filmed by TED.

I'm sure you'll find it both enjoyable and enlightening, and come away feeling a lot clearer in your own mind.

Simply click on the link below to go to the original recording:

http://tiny.cc/JSearle